Everything I Need to Know About Ministry I Learned Playing High School Football*

This past week I got to meet Chris Mortensen, NFL expert on ESPN and a believer. His football stories were only surpassed by his testimony of salvation, which was quite encouraging. It made me think of this article I wrote a while back, adapted a little for now…

Football has had an enduring affect on my life. Maybe it stems from the matching scars I have on both knees from surgical repairs brought about from my gridiron days. Maybe it is the joy I get from watching Josh this fall hit the field for the Knights, his school team. One thing is certain: every fall I experience a strange phenomenon. I find myself looking for someone to tackle, or at least to hit with a forearm! Something about playing high school football, although in my distant past of over twenty years ago, has never left me.

Now I have fought the urge to tackle a colleague or try to convince the secretaries in my office to lead a pep rally. But I have discovered that nothing in my adult experience causes me to reflect on my teenage years more than my annual habit of football nostalgia. And I am convinced that in a day where too many men act like pansies (or metrosexuals I suppose), football is still a place where men can be men.

Football gave me a lot. Oh, I was not the all-star player on my team. Like most guys, in my mind the older I get, the better player I was! But I have observed that being on a football team over four years taught me practical lessons about life that have helped me ever since. And, many of these same lessons have been especially helpful to me in ministry. Ministry is to team sports (like football) as painted lines are to a highway — not the same, but a pretty good parallel. Just look at the times Paul used athletics in the New Testament to teach spiritual truth (I Cor. 9:24-27, Phil. 3:14, I Tim, etc).

I look back all the time on the lessons I learned from football. Some of these may actually apply to blogging as well.

The team is first
The more you focus on helping others the better it is for you. If you are a pastor or staff member, helping the whole staff honor God should supersede any personal goals. When the team wins, everyone gets the credit, but when the team loses, individual achievements really don’t matter.

Sacrifice is a good thing
If all being on a football team involved was showing up and playing a game every week, half the guys in school would want to play. No, to play the game, you have to pay the price. Hours of sweating in the August sun, off-season conditioning, grueling drills, wind sprints, on and on the sacrifice goes. Afternoons in the fall are surrendered to practice. Ministry is not about finding your niche so much as it is pursuing godliness. This involves great sacrifice over time. Just look at the analogies Paul uses for leaders that relate to sacrifice.

Keep your eye on the prize
Our team’s goal, make no mistake, was to WIN. Our coach never began a season saying, “Our goal this year is to be 0 and 10.” We never started a week of practice with the goal of losing. Excuses were never allowed. In ministry we have to be careful about how we define “winning” by overly focusing on some things to the neglect of others. But let’s be clear — the goal of a team is never mediocrity, and neither should being average satisfy a minister. And winning souls should remain our priority.

Evaluation helps
Every Monday we watched film as a team. Our coach loved to say, “the big eye won’t lie.” If an assignment was blown, all could see. If a great play was made, all observed. Effective ministry requires ongoing evaluation. But the evaluation should always be focused on making people better rather than tearing them down.

Be a good sport
Learn what is important and what isn’t. In football hustle, preparation, and teamwork rule – personal feelings do not. The coach has the right to ride a player’s back if he loafs. In ministry, we tend to take ourselves too seriously, but fail to take the gospel seriously enough. We need to reverse those two and lighten up!

Leave nothing on the field
A good football player never quits. Too many ministers spend more time preparing for retirement than reaching the lost. Too many Christians seek security more than glorifying God with our lives. I still apply this mentally when I preach and teach. When I am finished, I am exhausted, but it is a good feeling to know I have given my best to communicate the Word of God.

A good coach sure helps
Great football programs on any level are marked by great coaches. The “coach” of a local church is the pastor. Everything rises or falls on leadership.

Be agile, mobile, and hostile
OK, I am getting carried away a bit — that’s how my coach described a linebacker. At my age I am fragile, docile and senile! In ministry we should never be hostile, but we must be agile and mobile, or flexible.

Football and ministry obviously are not exactly the same. Ministry matters a lot more. Ministry is not a game — it’s life and death. But, just as Paul used a soldier, an athlete, and a farmer to describe a minister, football can teach us a lot.

Now, go out there and give it all for the — no, not the Gipper — for the Savior!

* With apologies to Robert Fulghum, author of All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten: Uncommon Thoughts on Common Things.

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11 Responses to Everything I Need to Know About Ministry I Learned Playing High School Football*

  1. Matt Snowden

    Hit um again
    Hit um again
    Harder
    Harder!!!!

  2. Kevin Bussey

    As a former HS football coach I agree with your take. Also, I always wondered about Christ M. I knew he talks a lot about going to church. Thanks for sharing about him

  3. Alvin Reid alvinreid.com

    Yes Chris is a great believer. His testimony is amazing about the wonder of God in answering prayer and the faithfulness of a pastor.

  4. the david

    Hey, love your blog. Didn’t know if you were aware of the movie “Facing the Giants” that was coming out soon in theatres. The Kendrick brothers from Sherwood Baptist Church in Georgia (same guys that did “flywheel”) made it. Steven is a friend and I am screening the film this Thursday in Pensacola. The only two things in life that can bring me to tears are Jesus and Football, and this movie has both. It could get ugly. Cool stuff about Chris M. as well.

  5. Barry Murry

    Great Post!!!! My dad has coached for 35+ years and will love this.

  6. Eric Thomas

    Doc,

    Great “play by play”! I talked with a buddy this week who was at the evangelism conference where you spoke. It obviously challenged him in more ways than you can know. He told me that he’s committed in a fresh way to follow Jesus even into danger! Thanks for your part in shaping God’s future for so many.

    Eric

  7. Alvin Reid alvinreid.com

    Thanks guys.
    Kevin, you picked up a subtle little philosophical point I like to make with an article like this. We are gnostics too much, separating the secular from the spiritual too much. Football is not the Word, but it can teach truth too!
    The David–someone just gave me a DVD with that movie. I hope to watch it soon.
    Barry–I have to meet your dad–doesn’t he coach here?
    Eric–you always encourage me. I assume that was the youth conference I did in Texas? at any rate thanks much.

  8. Barry Murry

    Yes he is an assistant coach at Wake Forest Rolesville. He would love to meet you. His name is Don Murry.

  9. frostburgpreacher

    Thanks for the insight! You inspired a story for my blog today and living the Christian life and football.

  10. Matt Snowden

    Dr. Reid,
    I agree that we separate the sacred and secular too much. My small group leader said something Sunday that hit me hard. He said, “God is not interested in your spiritual life.” He followed that with, “He is interested in you life.” I thought he put it well. Thanks for your thoughts. They always encourage me.

  11. Cliff4JC

    Wow…now I really do want to win Mort for my fantasy draft!

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